It sounds like you have a few different factors to navigate: 1. Who is going to feed your son? You or will he feed himself? 2. Where is he going to sit while he eats? 3. What else will he be doing while he eats? First, it’s important to think about how and why these routines developed and to rule out any medical problems or lagging physical skills that might be getting in the way of the mealtime you’re hoping for.
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